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When Trying to Become Successful ….Here’s What You May Need to Give up

If you have dreams of really going somewhere in your life, there may be some habits you need to say goodbye to.  We all have dreams and visions, however only some of us will obtain them.  It takes diligence, persistence, and an extreme drive to get where you really want to go.  Here are some things in your life that you will need to give up in order to really let your wings soar:

  • Unhealthy Lifestyle
    Your body is the only place you will ever live while here on earth.  No matter how hard you try, you won’t be able to escape it.  If it is your home, then why not take care of it?  Instead of choosing unhealthy foods and forgoing the gym, adapt a healthy diet and implement physical activity.  Start out slow, and gradually increase when you feel comfortable.  Everything starts with you.
  • Short-term Mindset
    Successful people think long-term.  They have an overarching goal, one that cannot be obtained overnight.  Get rid of short-term thinking if you want to be successful, as this does not give you a clear vision of where you are going.
  • Fear
    Fear will inhibit you from doing and accomplishing many things if you let it.  Fear tells us not to speak up.  Fear tells us to stay home.  Fear tells us to keep our thoughts and ideas and dreams to ourself.  Fear tells us that we are silly, dumb, and will never amount to anything.  Forget it!  Give up fear of what could happen, and instead take chances and risks.  Live big and show the world what you are capable of.  You have so much inside that could benefit others, and you will rob the world of that if you never let it out.
  • Excuses
    It is easy to make excuses for why you cannot do something.  It is easy to blame past mistakes and failures for your inability to move forward.  It is even easy to blame others for their decisions and how they have affected your own life.  However, in order to be successful, you have to leave your excuses behind.  Own your failures and mistakes and learn from them.  Stop making excuses and just do.  If you don’t own your life, no one else is going to do it for you.
  •  Believing in the Magic Bullet
    Overnight success is an illusion.  Successful people know that in order to gain success, they must work at it.  Day by day, minute by minute.  Focus on improving 1% each day, and with consistence success will come.
  • Perfectionism
    No one is perfect.  Not even Mother Teresa.  Give up the idea that in order to be successful you have to be perfect in all you do.  You’re not going to get it right every time, and that’s okay.  You are human and you must account for human error.  Instead of beat yourself down, look at where you went wrong and learn from it.  Make a plan of action on how you will do things differently the next time.
  • Conclusion
    As you can see, success is not something that happens overnight.  In order to become truly successful, there are habits and mindsets in your life you will have to get rid of.  You can do it though, and we believe in you.  Remember, success starts with you.